Ups and downs of relationships

Once I was in one coffee bar and on the wall was written some kind of quote…it is long quote and I dont know the real author of it…but it goes something like this: „Here we do real things. We laugh, we cry, we argue, we say ‘sorry’, we apologize, we are humans, we hug, we kiss, we are imperfect….“ I dont know…Something like this… Maybe someone knows the real quote and can post it in comments. But point is…they say..here we do real things…

Haha…that is only a sign of immaturity in my opinion. They are presenting human relationships as this constant up and down…we laugh, we cry, we argue, we apologize, we kiss, we hug….I mean, there is so much immaturity in it.. It is too much emotional drama… it is emotional roller-coaster… I dont want that… I dont want ‘real’ things… I dont want ups and downs in my relationships… I want just ups…

Yes, I am aware that every relationship has downs..it has dark moments… it has difficult phases…I do understand that…but overall, that relationship needs to go constantly up… I dont want ups and downs… in their theory, one minute they love each other, next minute, they argue, then they apologize…. It is pure drama, soap opera, it is dysfunctional…  I want to have stable relationship. I want to deal with mature person… I am not interested in drama… I dont want to love you passionately one moment only to find next moment that I hate you and that I want to argue you… It is destructive.. You are not in control of your passions… Listen, either we are good and we have ups…or we are not good and we have downs… and thats it… End of the story… I dont want to constantly apologize…I dont want to spend my mental capacities on such trivial things…

They should wrote on that wall…here we do fake things… We are emotionally unbalanced and we are chasing emotional ‘highs’…we are shallow and we have very shallow emotions but we pretend that our emotions are deep… We cry, we laugh…because we are mindless and we dont know anything better to do… We are seeking attention….we are empty on inside…and we are emotional junkies…

Thats what they have to wrote there…

Why do you want drama?

Get out of it.

Constant up and down is never good…in anything…you need balance and stability…

7 comments

    1. hahaha true… because they dont have any purpose in life… People that do have purpose, they dont want drama….their minds are on different level…people that are lacking meaning and purpose, they look for drama, addiction, constant external stimulation…

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